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Post by muffinsowner on Dec 18, 2014 3:05:47 GMT -5
Muffin is 2 month old and he's been with me for a couple of weeks. My question is quite simple: how do I become friends with him? He is hand fed and he doesn't seem to be afraid of my hand, but he doesn't like it either. When he is out of the cage he usually climbs on me and bites my clothes. When I try to touch him he makes a kind of farting noise, but doesn't bite me. Still I assume he doesn't like being touched ,so normally I just let him climb on me and bite whatever he wants to bite (He always bites only my clothes and ever me). I am working, so I can only let him out of the cage before I go to work and after I come home. In between he is left to himself. Usually he cant wait to get out of the cage, but recently he prefers to stay inside even when I open it. It was actually a pretty sudden change. I am getting a feeling we're drifting apart. I may be paranoid, but here is the weirdest thing in this story. Besides Muffin I used to have two budgies. I bought them on a bird market and never managed to tame them, so they were completely wild. One of them (male) passed away several days ago. After that the female started to scream a lot during the day. Grieving I guess. Recently, Muffin started to produce a similar scream. Together they can scream all day long. I even started to get complaints from my neighbors. Ever since Muffin started to copy the female's scream there was a sudden change in his behavior. Like I said he does not come out of the cage anymore. Sounds crazy, but I get a weird vibe that the female budgie kind of badmouthed me. What should I do to get closer to Muffin? I really want him to think of me as his flock.
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Post by easttex on Dec 18, 2014 11:52:56 GMT -5
That is very sad for your budgie. They are very social birds and form strong bonds, so I have no doubt she is grieving. Your quaker is very young and impressionable, and he needs more interaction than it sounds like he is getting. In the wild, he would still be associated with his parents, who would be teaching him the necessary life skills. You don't need to quit your job , but the time you spend with him should include a lot of instructional time. He needs to learn how to play, how to bathe, and how to interact with you. You don't have to spend a lot of time at it, as his attention span will be pretty short, but a few training sessions per evening, of a few minutes each will really help you to build a bond with him. Start here: www.quakerparrots.com/general/bringing-home-baby-parrot/ There are tutorials and other general information sections on the site that should be helpful. I recommend you read up on quakers, and also learn how to train. I personally like Barbara Heidenreich's methods and philosophy, and you can find her on YouTube or on her website at goodbirdinc.com. There are other trainers that others might recommend. Quakers are wonderful creatures, but if you want a good relationship you'll have to work at it. Yours is very pretty, by the way. It might help calm both birds if you could leave a radio on during the day.
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Post by biteybird on Dec 19, 2014 4:40:55 GMT -5
The advice by Easttex is sound...unfortunately I don't have anything to add, except that 8 weeks is really young, so give your baby Muffin (great name!) some time. And I have never seen a yellow quaker before - in the photo he looks amazing! If you've had him only 2 weeks he's probably seeking role models at this point, so if you are at work he will defer to the most vocal resident (your other bird/s)!
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Post by muffinsowner on Dec 19, 2014 7:20:31 GMT -5
Thanks for all the advices. Hopefully, Me and Muffin get along well))))
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