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Post by beccilouise on Aug 12, 2016 7:02:51 GMT -5
Maya is becoming a teenager in just about every way possible. Luckily, the room she spends time with us in is away from her cage, as she is becoming quite cage territorial, and this is extending to any rearrangement of her play stand as well. She's quite used to perches and toys being moved around as I have done this all the time she's been home, but she doesn't half make a fuss about it now! And woe betide anyone who disturbs her foraging bucket, which is a bit difficult as I intend to change it shortly for a more challenging foraging toy to keep her occupied.
She's also decided she HATES my pink Thermos flask, which is particularly difficult if I'm trying to drink out of it...I'm doing all the usual things; put her down if she bites, remain calm, don't shout or make a fuss, give her time out if she becomes super aggressive (which hasn't really happened yet). She's still a pretty sweet little birdie and I'm not really too worried about it as I know consistency and not allowing her to dictate what goes on in the house is important. Mostly I find it quite amusing actually, though I'm trying very hard not to laugh at her when she gets cross as a) that's mean an b) I know it doesn't help the behaviour!
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Post by easttex on Aug 12, 2016 18:45:24 GMT -5
It's hard NOT to let them dictate - good luck with that! Actually, I think the more control you can give them in their environment, the better. I always think back to my father's extended hospital stay. This friendly, gregarious, good-tempered man became a near-bear, all because he had zero control over his life there. It does the same thing to animals, at least to the smarter ones.
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Post by biteybird on Aug 13, 2016 4:31:27 GMT -5
Welcome to parrot puberty:( Once it strikes it never seems to leave completely...
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Post by beccilouise on Aug 13, 2016 9:14:16 GMT -5
thanks guys, I'm not too worried about it as the moment as I've spent a lot of time preparing for and learning about Maya's teenage years. My only worry is that she seems to be getting a bit more vocally expressive during the day when I'm out (I hear her when I'm coming home and the Windows are a little open). She's not screaming, it seems mostly to just be innane chatter. My neighbours have been very accommodating so far, but I may have to invest in some soundproofing!
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Post by julianna on Aug 13, 2016 13:40:06 GMT -5
Maya sounds a lot like Oscar. He hates my black cup but will tolerate any other cup. He used to chatter a lot when I would leave but he understands now that "bye bye" means I will be gone for a little while. He definitely hears our vehicle pull into the driveway and that is when he starts up again... to me that is my welcome home.... I love it.
The teenage years are not really that bad. Yes they change their behaviours ... but so do we. Just keep doing what you are doing and things will work out. They love consistency so just keep on the way you are.
You know... half the time I used to think Oscar was screaming... but now I realize that he isn't screaming as in upset... he could be just saying thank you... When I give him something to eat, he bows his head really low and opens his mouth... snatches the food... then a very loud scream. This is when I learned that this is not a scream... he is saying thank you in bird language... lol
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Post by biteybird on Aug 14, 2016 3:22:52 GMT -5
I may have to invest in some soundproofing! Here's a tip from a trumpet player: you can attach empty egg cartons all over your walls and they are EXCELLENT at sound-proofing the room (if you don't want to spend lots of $$).
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Post by beccilouise on Aug 14, 2016 10:57:24 GMT -5
Biteybird, that's an EXCELLENT idea! (Eggsellent? ...sorry, I'm British, I can't help it...) I might try that. She's been pretty good today, although she goes MENTAL and does her mad seagull warning-call-of-death if anyone touches her foraging you or manzanita perch. She's definitely not screaming, it sounds like happy-to-be-alive noises. So I think that is just like Oscar, just expressing herself! Gotta love her.
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