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Post by alwhite716 on Jan 11, 2015 21:33:17 GMT -5
Hi! I am new to this forum, and a new Quaker mommy. I recieved my baby yesterday from a breeder across the county. He had great reviews, however I am less then pleased with him. The baby is a lot smaller than most Quakers, is not banded, and is very flighty. I know it takes time for them to settle in, especially after such a long and stressful day, however, when my conure arrived, it was very apparent that he was well socialized and handled often. This baby (yet to be named, not sure of gender but suggestions are very welcome) is VERY flighty. He doesn't know how to step up, and when I do hold him, he is constantly running away. In the cage, he's all over the place. So my question is, is this "normal" behavior? If he wasn't handled much, will I still be able to tame him? I already love him, but it would be nice if he (or she ) eventually lets me hold him and interact with him!
Thank you!
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Post by easttex on Jan 12, 2015 6:39:47 GMT -5
I'm not surprised he doesn't know the step up. Breeders are generally not known for keeping babies long after weaning, and that's about the earliest anyone would start training step up. How old is your baby, and what is his weight? It's normal for a bird to lose a bit after weaning, and if he's a blue quaker or another variant he may be naturally smaller, but anything seriously outside the norm should be checked by a vet. Is he eating and drinking okay? Give him some time on the behavior. You're right, he's just gone through a whole lot. He's been ripped away from everything he's known in his little life and experienced who knows what discomforts on the trip. Who could blame him if he's very, very stressed. Species are different, and individuals within a species are different, so comparisons can be futile. Let him settle in a bit and be calm and soothing around him, but I wouldn't wait too long to start working gently with him. You basically have to bring him up, like his bird parents would have. If you you have any concerns about his health, take him to an avian vet. I would take him anyway, just to get things off on the right foot. Good luck with him, and keep us posted!
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Post by biteybird on Jan 12, 2015 17:32:47 GMT -5
We were lucky with Bonnie, as the breeder had already taught her 'step up' (we picked her up at 8 weeks old, she had just been weaned and flew for the first time on the day we brought her home). I agree with Easttex, just give him time and non-forced, gentle, calm interaction on a consistent, daily basis (even if each 'session' is really short). I think you will be surprised about how far he will come - you may look back at these posts in a couple of months and realise the progress you and he have made. Let us know how you are going!
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Post by birdlady on Apr 1, 2015 17:33:06 GMT -5
so I'll try this again...sorry, just learning....... not sure how this works. Had to create an acct to answer. You need to call this breeder! ANY reputable breeder will answer any and all questions. This sounds like an older bird to me that didn't get much attention after weaning. I mean...it may be what some people consider a baby and sold as a baby but was just put in a cage after weaning. If a buyer has a problem with one of my babies I will go as far (within reason) as to go to their home in order to place my babies in the best homes. Did u get a Quaker or a conure? Banded or not banded is a preference. I personally band but there is nothing wrong with a bird that is not banded. Did u pick this bird up in person? Not sure. You say county but did you mean country? What state are you in? Even though not my baby I would be willing to help...it's all about the bird. ANY bird. Not just mine. Not sure again....how this all works. Send me an email at fishfantasiesandfeathers@windstream.net Make sure to tell me who u are and why u are emailing. From there I'll give you my cell so we can text. This is all assuming you are in the US. This is an older post. I hope you are nothing coming along. Some babies wean pretty quickly and some are a little stubborn but there is no reason that a baby doesn't at least know the beginnings of what 'step up' means. No reason at all... unless little trouble makers non of my babies get clipped until leaving and that is at the descression of the buyer. I do recommend clipping though. I just get so aggravated at dishonesty. It give all the truly good breeders a bad name. It's not about the money. Well.....maybe a little. I like to have 'stuff' for my birds and they like it too. Bird toys, perches, swings, t pees, lots of good food, etc. I have 3 buildings (I've been told no more, I'm out of control) full of 'stuff' for my birds and only 15% of that is taken up by cages. I am so lucky to get up every day to work at something I love. That is the kind of bird breeder you need to look for in your area. They are out there. Grrrrr....I am ranting....sorry there are also many good bird stores out there too. You have to ask around for personal experiences. Usually they are ones where when you walk in there are baby birds everywhere out of their cages, playing. Most pet stores will leave them out all day under a watchful eye. This gets them acclimated to all sorts of things so even if they do get older after weaning they are still very social babies. So don't discount pet stores.
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Post by julianna on Apr 2, 2015 12:45:14 GMT -5
One of the others on this site always gives good advice for new quaker parrot moms.... and that is to let the little one adjust. Talk to him/her softly gently... and sit near them when you do. You can even sing a little song to them. They need to adjust to your voice and the surroundings. This may take anywhere from a week to a month but patience is the virtue.
Once they stop running around the cage and start trusting you more then you can start putting your hand in slowly. Talking softly all the time. One thing I would recommend is that you do not wear really bright colors when you want to get close to the quaker as most of them are afraid of reds, oranges, bright yellows. I know that will help a little. Be sure to give him/her treats from your hands like small pieces of peeled fruit or anything you know he/she loves to eat. This will show him that you are trustworthy. Good luck and welcome to the forum.
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Post by birdlady on Apr 2, 2015 21:20:59 GMT -5
Very well put
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